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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

10.06.2025 11:32

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Why did i forgive my father ?

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

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And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

(And it was in our own minds.)

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

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We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

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All the time i was locked up.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

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You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

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I said to her

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

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It was going to be , some day.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

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It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I think the readers, may guess!

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

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I couldn’t, believe it.

My life is so biszare .

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

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I know ,a lot about trauma.

I have no regrets .

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Why do I feel bad when I see white girls dating black guys, am I racist?

But, we were locked up after school.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

This is how, and why children get BPD.

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When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

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I will be 64.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

So, i spoilt her more .

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

What did i know ?

I was 9 years of age.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

He resisted the act ,that day.

I was very sick at this time too.

She married twice! .

She wouldn,t have been !

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Especially a lifetime of it.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

So whats the point in blame.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I could never make a relationship work though!

Who then, do I blame.?

Would this be the day?

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

I don,t even have a pension.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

She was in good health!

Put me off passion for life!!

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

As i do to all so called friends.?

Was to survive, this bastard.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I waited trembling.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Ive learnt so much.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

One cannot live in the past .

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

My family never makes their pension either.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

And i lived it daily.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I write beautiful poetry .

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

I was seconnd youngest,

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Im still living with it.

She loved him until the end.

We all went to grammer schools

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I never cut or harmed myself..

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

He knew the spot.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

When she asked me how she looked .

This is soul school!.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

But it wasn’t much.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

We were not on the streets..

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I was scared of men, in general

On the 31st of Jan this month .

She found it foreign!.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

But ive been too sick for many years..

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!